Brutal honesty defines love. Love defines wisdom. Brutal honesty and wisom define picking and choosing your’ battles. You see it’s all a statistical line. Do I accept and initiate this current situation into a battle, or do I decline this situation, and save the battle for a different situation with a larger problem. To love someone, yet also accept and decline battles that ultimately would force them to discover their own personal flaws, is an incredible gift. Wisdom is what I hope to achieve one day.